We have Core Need for: Love Connection Community To know I'm not alone To be seen and known
Partner A could communicate that need in two ways:
Partner A could communicate that need in 2 ways: Variant 1: Partner A speeking from Protector, for example Critic
Partner A speeking from Protector, for example Critic
You never listen to me.
Partner A is speaking from Vulnerable Need
When you are looking at your phone, while I'm speaking, I feel alone and unlovable.
How this lands in Partner B?
Partner B detects danger because of critical statement and responds from Protector, for ex.
Critic
You're speaking all the time.
What could happen?
Fight/War
Whithrown
Leaving the room
What could happen?
Disconnection
Partner B most likely feels
Empathy and comassion
I'm sorry that I'm having this impact on you.
What could happen?
More Connection
Variant 2: Partner A is speaking form Vulnerable Need
When you are looking at your phone, while I'm speaking, I feel alone and unlovable.
How this lands in Partner B?
Partner B most likely feels
